Swimming In Laundry

Thoughts and Observations While Navigating the Laundry Room of Life

The Unknown Strikes Again November 26, 2007

Filed under: Herbie, Violet, transient synovitis — swimminginlaundry @ 10:04 am

Violet lost her second tooth yesterday. She was very worried about The Tooth Fairy taking her tooth. In fact, she woke up at 4:28 this morning. Unfortunately, The Tooth Fairy had not yet visited. I tucked Violet back in with the promise that she had not been forgotten. At 5:30 when The Tooth Fairy tip-toed into the bedroom she was met with two, beady little eyes. The Tooth Fairy, sneaky as could be, slid a dollar bill under the pillow while combing Violet’s hair away from her cheek. When she woke at 7, Violet was so happy that she was allowed to keep the tooth AND the money. What a forgetful thoughtful tooth fairy.

While The Tooth Fairy was busy dancing around my house, trying not to be discovered; I had plenty of time to mentally compose a post. Unfortunately, this is not the post I had in mind. I was planning on giving you a glowing report on Herbie’s progress and near perfect recovery. Little did I know that he would wake a few hours later, limp into our room and declare pain in the bottom of his feet. We’ve inspected his feet- nothing. We’ve taken his temperature- normal. We have no idea what to do/think/pray/say. This is the first time he has been able to specifically identify the source of his discomfort. He is trying to walk. He is stiff legged and prefers to crawl at this point. He is not crying…at this moment. He has an appointment for more blood tests on Wednesday morning…. until then, I guess we “wait and see”.

 

Thanksgiving Eve November 21, 2007

Filed under: Karapy, Simply Koya, Sisterly Love, Thanksgiving — swimminginlaundry @ 10:23 am

I haven’t started the pies. I haven’t dusted my house. I haven’t even figured out what time we’re eating tomorrow. Details, details…

Life has been rough this last year; and yet, I find myself being thankful for so much. I hope to somehow teach my children that “a thankful heart is a happy heart”. As trite as that sounds, I think it is a lesson worth teaching/modeling.

Today I am thankful for: bubble baths that entertain my kids for half an hour, chai tea, sisters, and the morning chill of fall.

 

My Best Quality… November 19, 2007

Filed under: Simply Koya, Sisterly Love — swimminginlaundry @ 10:16 am

…according to my youngest sister:

No matter when she calls I am always close to my computer. I seem to be her personal 411.

Today I am thankful for dexknows.com and mapquest. I am also thankful that I am the one K thinks of when she needs something.

 

Grace November 18, 2007

Filed under: Herbie, Hospitalization, It's all about me, transient synovitis — swimminginlaundry @ 9:13 pm

Herbie is cruising around the house in his daddy’s shoes- not only is it a cute sight, it is also a blessing to see him up and around AND NOT crying. He seems to be doing very well. I don’t understand all that has happened or why it happened, but I learned a bit more about myself.

Looking back over the week, I am amazed by my instinct to simply pray. I called out to God and He met me with grace and peace (yes, I was worried; but surprisingly, I felt pretty calm. I had one crying episode and then got it together). While in the hospital, when Herbie would get a little upset, I sang every hymn I could think of (ok, ok, I sang a bunch of verses to a bunch of different hymns forming my own song! I am trying to be a writer, you know?)

I don’t know how people survive the rough spots without God.  Crud, I don’t know how people survive the rough spots WITH God.  I do know that life is seemingly unfair and ugly at times.  I also know that there is a God, He has a plan far greater than mine, and He has offered me more grace than I deserve…I guess that’s the beauty of grace.

Today I am thankful for instincts, perspective, and grace…oh, sweet grace.

 

I Need A Break From the Seriousness That Is My Life… November 16, 2007

Filed under: Uncategorized — swimminginlaundry @ 8:55 pm

~Why is it that Emily Elizabeth has yellow blond hair while her eyebrows are black?

~It just occurred to me that “The Sweet Life of Zack and Cody” is actually “The Suite Life”.

~I don’t get the appeal of Hannah Montana…anyone?

~Tom and Jerry is the only thing that has stopped delayed Herbie’s crying this week.

~How can I get my kids to play outside like The Backyardigans?

Today, I am thankful for children who walk without screaming, long naps, and bedtime.

 

Diagnosis By Exclusion November 15, 2007

Filed under: Herbie, Hospitalization, transient synovitis — swimminginlaundry @ 2:24 pm

We saw a doctor this morning and were given a diagnosis of Transient Synovitis (inflammation of one or more joints; most commonly caused by a viral infection). I think, like the rest of us, doctors want to assign a name to the problem. This is the name we’ve been given.

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Collin’s symptoms do not meet the criteria (right now) for any other diagnosis. So, we’re calling the problem “TS”. (Upon further reading and research, I don’t think his symptoms really fit TS either, but I’m happy to go along with it as it is the best case scenario diagnosis.) Bad/scary words were spoken again today. If it is TS, he should continue to improve. If it is not TS, he will get worse. …hmmm…. Not exactly what I wanted to hear. Thanks, Doc.

As of today, he is walking with a bit of irregularity, crying, whining, coughing, and running a fever.
The plan of action right now is to wait and watch…some more…and repeat his lab tests in two weeks.

 

Diagnosis of exclusion

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The term diagnosis of exclusion (per exclusionem) refers to a medical condition whose presence cannot be established with complete confidence from examination or testing. Diagnosis is therefore by elimination of other reasonable possibilities.

 

Day 3 November 14, 2007

Filed under: Herbie, Hospitalization — swimminginlaundry @ 12:30 pm

I thought I would write about the emotional strain of the last few days, but alas it isn’t all about me today! It is ALL about Collin again. He is walking. YEAH! He is without fever…for now. YEAH! He is crying. NOT YEAH! He is whining. NOT YEAH!

We are sitting on the couch trying to watch cartoons and blog! Every couple of minutes he starts to cry again. I hate (yes, I know: “we don’t say that word”, but I can’t think of a better one) that I don’t know what’s wrong or how to fix it. I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO FOR HIM…ugh….!

Please continue to pray for us.

Later that same day: We are still camped out on the couch. Collin is restless, tearful, and hungry. He turned down the opportunity to work on Grandpa’s GT6. There is definitely something wrong with him.

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Photo taken a few weeks ago.

 

Take 2 of Nothing and Don’t Call Me in the Morning November 13, 2007

Filed under: Herbie, Hospitalization — swimminginlaundry @ 9:30 pm

We’ve been sent home. I don’t know how I feel about that as we still don’t know what’s wrong with our child. It is good to be home though.

Just in case you are the one person I haven’t talked to or you’re Collin and you want to know about your first hospitalization, here is the complete story (as I remember it…for now).

Collin has had a cold for about a week. I took him to the doctor on Friday to rule out an ear infection. His ears were clear and we were told to let the cold run its’ course. He spent the next two days laying around and running a fever but recovering. On Sunday night we had an early dinner. After dinner we decided to go for a walk. Collin complained and I thought he had sat on his leg and it was asleep. He took about 10 steps and cried. The Pilot carried him on our walk. When we got home, he continued to cry and would not walk without holding onto something. I thought he might be dizzy from his cold. He was running a fever (101.3) so we gave him ibuprofen and he fell asleep in my lap.

Monday morning he got up (bright and early, yippee!) and spent the morning playing “cottage” with his brother and sister. They played for about 3 hours before the power went out and we decided to leave town. We loaded up and went to the nearest mall (about a 25 minute drive). When we got out of the car he WOULD NOT walk. He CRIED…A LOT. We immediately loaded back up and drove back home. We stopped at Grandma’s for lunch and, when he slid across 3 chairs trying to get up, The Pilot scooped him up and walked him across the street to the emergency room (extra info I know, but I think it’s funny that one can walk to the emergency room! We also found out that “Mayberry” does not have an urgent care….good to know.)

We sat at the emergency room for about 5 hours. Collin had xrays and blood work. His white blood cell count came back elevated and the xrays of his hip were abnormal. At this point we started to hear very scary words…tumor, cyst, malignancy, hole…

Arrangements were made and Collin was transported to “The City” for more tests. By the time we reached the children’s hospital, he would not even let his legs dangle. He was a very good sport as multiple doctors poked and prodded his little body. (When did they start letting junior high kids practice medicine?!) We spent the night at the hospital: Collin in a sweet little bed with his special blankie, new stuffed animal, and 6 matchbox cars; The Pilot and I on a very small cot (it was very cozy and I loved it! The Pilot wasn’t quite as excited!). We spent the night trying to sleep in 4 hour increments.

This morning Collin got up and was fine (his gait is still not quite right, but he will walk)….hmmm…….

We were released from the hospital after confirming with the pediatric radiologist that Collin’s hip is fine, but his sed rate is still high. The doctors have no idea what is going on (they are speculating that he has a viral infection that has gotten into his bones and it should clear up on its’ own). We are under orders to “wait and see”. I’m not good at waiting….

 

We’re Still Waiting… November 13, 2007

Filed under: Herbie, Hospitalization — swimminginlaundry @ 11:28 am

 

Thankfully, The Pilot is Home! November 12, 2007

Filed under: Herbie, Hospitalization — swimminginlaundry @ 11:40 pm

This seems so impersonal, but it also seems like the best way to keep the masses informed and document what’s happening.

Here is a brief overview of our current story. The entire family has had a cold for about 2 wks. Last night Collin refused to walk and cried every-time we forced him to take a step. This morning everything seemed fine. At about 1 this afternoon, he was completely unable to walk. We took him to the emergency room in “Mayberry”. Xrays were taken, blood drawn, and still we had no diagnosis. The xrays were abnormal and we were transported to “the city”. We are awaiting the results of more blood tests and the arrival of the pediatric radiologist. Hopefully, we will know something tomorrow afternoon.

So, here we sit. Waiting. Praying. Expecting.

I’ll try to keep you posted. We are answering our phones…for now. If we are unable to chat we’ll let you know!